38 | Berlin | Couples & Sex Therapist in Training
Year:
2026
NIKA
I chose a rose quartz, a disco ball and a necklace.
I received the rose quartz as a gift from a friend a few years ago, when I was exhibiting my handmade vulva jewelry in Byron Bay, Australia. It reminds me of a very special moment filled with love, appreciation, and connection—and that’s exactly what the rose quartz still represents to me today.
The disco ball represents my love for music, dancing, and festivals. It reminds me of how free and alive I feel when I dance. To me, it’s a symbol of freedom, hedonism, and the joy of being fully present in life.
These two objects reflect different parts of who I am. The rose quartz represents closeness and meaningful memories, while the disco ball stands for self-expression, freedom, and my love of life.
I also chose a necklace with lips. It comes from our theatre costume collection. I like wearing it when I want to feel sexy and playful.
Today, I feel free in my body and enjoy showing myself just as I am. It wasn’t always like that. For a long time, I struggled to accept my small breasts because I associated femininity with curves and a larger chest. Nowadays, I love them exactly as they are. My nipple piercings are an expression of that journey — a symbol of self-acceptance, appreciation, and the freedom to live in my body on my own terms.
